In town, the news is in your face. The
front page shows a death toll and a frantic woman on her
cell phone. When I come to town I realize how isolated we are, living
in the country. Insulated may be a better word. The event is on our
mind, but not 'in our face'.
I observe the people in
Winston Salem, recent events hang over them like a shadow.
'Old Salem Tour' was written on what
looked like a ski lift ticket, clipped to a man's jacket.
“I see you've taken the tour of old
Salem. How did you like it?” This is a friendly town, it's
easy and natural to start conversations with strangers.
“They're a very interesting group.”
he replied, “Very communal. I wonder how much of their culture is
still in place at this time.”
“I've been there myself, walking
around talking with the people in their period dress. I think
everyone was communal 300 years ago, you kinda had to be.”
“I mean the Moravian culture, have they been able to incorporate it in modern society? You
know Andy Griffith, of the Mayberry RFD TV show ?”
“Yeah, great show. From the 60s?”
“I learned today that Andy Griffith
was a Moravian. He didn't talk about it or preach about it but you
notice in his show that he never carries a gun. That's one of their
principles.”
“Yeah, come to think of it that
is
odd for a Sheriff.”
“In all other cop shows, they use
violence to solve problems. They carry guns and use them.”
“Andy Griffith was an actor, did he control the content?”
“He wrote a lot of the scripts. It
was his show.”

“I remember, who was that guy, the
goofy guy, Don Knotts?”
“Yes, Don Knotts.”
“I remember him getting excited,
pulling out a gun and loading it up, but then Andy would say in a
calm voice,'Put that thing away. We're gonna try something else
here.”
“Yep, using a gun was shown as a
reckless, thoughtless act. Recently I've heard that if you eat junk,
you'll feel like junk. What we read about or hear about or watch on
TV is another form of eating. Media is supplying society with violent
entertainment. It's natural that some will turn to violence. It's
portrayed as glorious, fun, exciting, entertaining.”
“That's why I've come to town with
these books....”, I replied. The discussion went deeper with the new material.
Later that day.....
“Excuse me. I'm showing these books
to people with tattoos.”
A man in his mid twenties stopped,”Uh
OK.” and accepted a book from me.
“Does this tattoo mean anything?” I
pointed to a rose permanently drawn on his arm.
“Yes, it marks a period of
transformation in my life.”
“And what was that, if you don't mind
sharing?”
“I was able to break my addiction to
dangerous drugs.”
“How long have you been free now?”
“Five years.”
“Congratulations! Is this an
improvement?”
“Absolutely.”
“Can we say that by practicing self
discipline you experience greater freedom?”
“Yes, certainly.”
“We all practice self control.
Imagine if you see someone eating a jelly filled doughnut. “I'm
bigger than her, I'm just going to take that.”
My new friend laughed at the thought.
“Such a person would not have much
freedom. Very soon he'd find himself locked up. There is a wide range
of thoughts and actions that we can gain control of . Once we do, we
experience freedom beyond our imagination. That's what yoga is about,
that's what this book directs us toward.”
“I like the pictures.”
“Perhaps your next tattoo will come
from this book if you find it transformational.Transformation goes
on for a long time. We have a lot of cleaning to do, it seems
endless, but there is a point where bad habits are
cleared entirely. At that stage we gain access to a higher platform.”
I hand him another book,”Bhakti is a
sanskrit word. It means love. 400 years ago, the author of this book defined love
as the highest goal, beyond anything else one could aspire for such
as fame, money, physical strength,skills..”
“I agree. There is a girl that I've
been seeing, we've been sharing things..”
“Yes, that is a glimpse of what is
discussed here, but until we become pure, what starts as love can
easily degrade into selfishness.”
He nodded in agreement. I was surprised
how thoughtful people are today, sharing wisdom and taking lessons.
That evening, I visited my friends at
Kindred Spirits Gift Shop on Trade Street. A variety of bumper
stickers were on display, one of them read,”There is no violent
solution.”
I thought about our local hero. Folks
around here are 'right proud' of Andy Griffith. He's from right up
the road in Pilot Mountain. He exhibits the good qualities
mentioned in Bhagavad Gita, keeping his cool under pressure, not
acting out of anger, being resourceful. He resisted the flow of
society to quietly make a subtle point.
“Well good for Andy, sticking to his
principles. He made a great show without giving in to
society's demands.” I thought,"I can learn something from that."